Ever noticed how the run-up to December can sneak up on you? I find this is about the time of year when people who arrived at their summer hols completely knackered look back and think, “That’s when I should have taken a step back … put things in perspective, rationalised my priorities, or simply deleted something off the to-do list until the ... Read On
We will kick our own door down if we have to
Hindsight is always so illuminating, isn't it? We look back and think, wow, if I only I’d known then what I know now... One thing I’ve learned more than once - and see others learn quite often too - is how important our internal ‘nudges’ or taps on the shoulder are. They can come from various parts of ourselves, and when we don't listen, ... Read On
It’s mid-year. What the heck’s happened to my resolutions?!
If you’re like most humans, you start the year with the best of intentions, and even start off quite well; taking action towards your goals or practising the new work-life balance you want. And it probably went quite well, until March at least (which is when, for many people, one wheel starts to wobble slightly), or until June-ish when winter kicks ... Read On
What in the World is going on? (VLOG)
If you’re on this page and about to read this particular article, there’s a very good chance you’ve been asking yourself this question even if it’s been in a subtle, under the radar kind of way. Many people are asking themselves what on earth is going on as they look around and reflect on the events of recent years and look at what is going on ... Read On
How to dream big and capture your vision
Would you like a fresh way to capture your vision for your life? Is just thinking about what you want feeling a bit stale, or do you find yourself writing down the same thing that you wrote five years ago and wonder why it’s still a goal, and not actually in your life yet? Do you find yourself ‘settling’ in some areas of your life? Are you ... Read On
Summer Book Reviews – Consolations: The Solace, Nourishment And Underlying Meaning Of Everyday Words by David Whyte
Consolations By David Whyte Since I was a teenager, I’ve had a small pile of books that are my ‘bedside books’. They live in my bedside table or my book-bag when I travel, and they are my go-to's when I want to read something light, nourishing or inspiring. Currently the pile includes the Sufi Book of Life, The Pilgrim of Tinker Creek by Annie ... Read On
Summer Book Reviews – Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Joe Dispenza
Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One By Joe Dispenza It was while listening to Joe Dispenza recently in an interview say that over 90% of the thoughts we think are the same thoughts as the day before that I sat up and paid attention in a new way. It hit me between the eyes. How outrageous is that? ... Read On
Hope is always there, even when it feels lost
I’ve lost hope before. When I’ve been ill. Alone. Broke. Sad. Angry. Grieving. I realised recently that as I made my way through those times and came out the other side, even though I may have given up hope at times, it was still there. It's really not easy to see when you're in the thick of it. Maybe you've given up. Perhaps you're in ... Read On
3 MORE ways to put your mind in service to your happiness
But wait, there’s more! Following on from my earlier article about putting your mind in service to your happiness, here are three more tips to help you cultivate a mindset that supports a positive mood and a great life. Focus the mind on what you want Even with all the experience and skills and tools I have as a coach and as someone ... Read On
Comfort Can Kill Your Spirit
I’ve been super inspired by a number of clients recently who have opted out of their current jobs because of poor leadership, limited opportunities, or a crappy culture. They’ve defined their ideal role or next step and then gone and got it. So good! This is on the back of thinking a lot lately about how attached we can become to the comfort of ... Read On